You should enjoy sex. Ideally, you should crave sex. However, many don’t want it. They don’t want it with their partner right now. 

Some people are indifferent to sex with their spouse preferring to do it with a beautiful Miami escort, while others actively despise it. These people feel worse after sex, about themselves, their partner, the relationship, and possibly sex. 

How does something magnificent become so bad in so many ways?

Sexual Relations 

Sexual desire is indeed influenced by many factors, so there are no simple solutions or quick tactics to firing things up in the bedroom, but there are some broad principles. 

Partners often battle with desire disparities, where one desires sex more than the other. However, forcing someone to have sex against their will is the best method to extinguish their sexual urge. If they can’t say no, they won’t say yes enthusiastically. 

When Yes Means No

A passionate yes is different from a reluctant yes. Their partner may exert sex pressure. This is clear when someone insists on sex after their partner has expressed they’re not interested. 

They may whine or get irritated. It forces the partner to have sex. This may win the battle, but it will lose the war because the partner will be even less interested in messing about next time. 

Pressured To Have Sex

Self-imposed sex pressure can occur. For instance, saying no would be unfair to their partner who desires sex. They may worry about the consequences of saying no. 

They may struggle to handle their partner’s disappointment or rage and feel like they have to repair it. They may worry their partner may seek sexual fulfillment elsewhere if they don’t receive it at home. 

Fear And Anxiety

Fears of the other partner or the uninterested person’s anxieties will kill their desire for sex. They’ll obey, but not emotionally. 

When someone isn’t interested in sex, they won’t enjoy it as much. They may have an orgasm, but that doesn’t mean they agree or that their grudging yes became an enthusiastic yes. They may be going through the motions to get through a bad circumstance quickly. 

Needless to say, this won’t excite them for the next encounter. On the other hand, their sex partner probably notices the lack of enthusiasm. Even if their companion isn’t cold, they’re not performing. 

Feeling Disconnected 

Physically, everything works out but emotionally everything feels unconnected. The recipient with lukewarm interest may first want more or better sex. They may also buy new toys, lingerie, or suggest beautiful new positions. 

In general, it’s good to invest in your sex life and try new things, but this problem isn’t ennui with the status quo, thus thrilling novelty won’t fix it. Instead, it will add pressure or things to say no to. Since rejection hurts, the more interested partner may lose interest. 

How To Maintain Sexual Desire

Making both parties want to be there is key. More foreplay or new touch may be needed. It may include altering the pre-sex phase. It may mean addressing other relationship or life issues that are affecting the bedroom.